Tiger Woods seriously injured

[MaTH716]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

They can help it for sure. Most just choose to do it anyway. IMO. Sorry Gander.. dont take it personally... thats they way I feel though.

Aunty, If you had to guess, what do you think the percentage is of married men that cheat?

[slotdirt]

That voicemail is fantastic, and undoubtedly actually Tiger Woods' voice. At least the girl he's hosing is above the Steve Phillips realm of ladies.

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by MaTH716

Aunty, If you had to guess, what do you think the percentage is of married men that cheat?

I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

[hockey2315]

75%?

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by hockey2315

75%?

Um lets see here.. something like 54% of marraiges end in divorce.. so count 54% there.. and most arent even caught!

75% may be a little high.. but no way would I put it lower than 60%. and remember thats the young crowd, tons of marriages start for the wrong reasons anyway.

[hockey2315]

So all divorces are caused by infidelity?

Wow. . . learn something new every day.

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by hockey2315

So all divorces are caused by infidelity?

Wow. . . learn something new every day.

I would be willing to bet in almost all divorces either the man or woman strayed at one point. It could have been the reason for the divorce or it could have been when "they were struggling with the relationship".

When you dont love or really care for your partner anymore.. I'm sure that makes cheating much easier.

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

So that means the majority of women are whores.

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by Coach Pants

So that means the majority of women are whores.

oh they totally are. thats not even a question!

[MaTH716]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

I think your percentages are definitley of the high side.
I do agree with your thinking as far as the guys getting married very young eventually cheating.
But I disagree with your serial cheating thinking. My feeling is once they do it and get away with it, then eventually start thinking that they could do it whenever they want and always get away with it.

[Antitrust32]

Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

[MaTH716]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

You buddy is an idiot.

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by MaTH716

You buddy is an idiot.

i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

[Scav]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

It isn't TV and entertainment. People just know more about it, more educated, and they know if you wrap up you get to party and have some fun.

[Gander]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

I dont know a single man who even feels close to that. Why would anybody who felt that way even bother with getting married in the first place?

[SCUDSBROTHER]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

It's not caused by more of something. It's caused by less self-repression.

[Scav]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

It is all about understanding. I would love to roll like AK47 (Andrei Kirelenko), on his birthday, he gets to bang a random chick every year, his wife BUYS the girl for him.

Now that is how to roll.

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by Antitrust32

I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

maybe tony and i are the exception, but you couldn't be further from the truth there. and yes, it's a shame that some couples fall into that-or the wife tells hubby she isn't interested anymore, or vice versa. but there are plenty of us out there who treat our husbands like kings, and they treat us like queens. and it's GREAT. i wouldn't give up tony for anything, ever. we make sure we keep each other first.