Spitzer

Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

ATYPICAL GENTLEMAN,but then again you have firepower there at the house.That helps keep him structured.

There ya go.

Every man must have to cheat
because you want it outside the
household so bad. Dont have to be
that way.

Had relations with one woman for 21 years.
And still counting. Im just not hurtin, so I
dont get you. But I empathize. I can understand.
I just dont need it myself. What the hell is odd
about being with one woman? I dont understand
why you think this is so odd.

I guess I got all the meandering out of the system
before I was married. And I realized how good
I have it. Helps to be picky I guess. Maybe just
dumb luck.

[SCUDSBROTHER]

Originally Posted by pgardn

There ya go.

Every man must have to cheat
because you want it outside the
household so bad. Dont have to be
that way.

Had relations with one woman for 21 years.
And still counting. Im just not hurtin, so I
dont get you. But I empathize. I can understand.
I just dont need it myself. What the hell is odd
about being with one woman? I dont understand
why you think this is so odd.

I guess I got all the meandering out of the system
before I was married. And I realized how good
I have it. Helps to be picky I guess. Maybe just
dumb luck.

We all know you are atypical.Are you saying you have only been interested in looking at 1 woman for 21 years?No porn..No strip clubs....Tell the truth,cuz people will remember this.Why would I not question this.Couldn't this be what Spitzer had written a couple months ago(other than the exact 21 years.)

Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

We all know you are atypical.Are you saying you have only been interested in looking at 1 woman for 21 years?No porn..No strip clubs....Tell the truth,cuz people will remember this.Why would I not question this.Couldn't this be what Spitzer had written a couple months ago(other than the exact 21 years.)

Did not wanna see what I cant touch right in front
of me when I was single. I wanted the go sign.
I never liked stip clubs when I was single.
Have not been in a strip club since my brother
was married 23 years ago. Was totally blottoed,
can barely remember.

Porn.
Yep.
Steve introduced me to that today.
Porn is too easy. Its everywhere.
It comes at you.

And I am telling you Scuds I have
never been with another woman, EVER in 21 years.
I dont feel like
some sort of freaky Saint. Why do you make
people who are monogomous out to be
some sort of oddity?

How do you know I am atypical? Do you know
a bunch of men that might lie about encounters?

Have I ever thought about what it would
be like... yes, absolutely. Do I AVOID situations
that could bring about encounters, absolutley.
I dont like these games. I hate the
conferences in the summer when there are an
obvious group of people that are looking for encounters
(some just because they are away from home)
But I have seen an equal number that want none of it,
so I hang out with them if out of town.

Are there any women I know at work that would
go at it... yes, very clearly. Honestly though,
my wife is much more
attractive. Much more.
Maybe the problem is my wife is more attractive
to me than the majority of women I see.
Bunch of ugly women in Texas...like England.

I dont think I am some sort of pious freak.
I dont get it. I have at least 5 friends that
are married that are just like me. I would
wager they have not had encounters.

[SCUDSBROTHER]

PGRDN,porn is a substitute for being with other women.Some would say men that look at it aren't monogamous.Men are gunna want to look at more than one woman naked.Woman tolerate it better than actual sex,because it's doesn't have an emotional attachment to it.So,how many men just have sex with their wife?no porn,no strip clubs,no having intercourse with other women) I just ruled you out.You're (in this way) normal.If you're watching someone naked(other than your wife,)then you too enjoy pie(instead of cake)once in a while.That's what a male is wired to be like.Guys who watch porn aren't getting the emotional experience of being with another woman,but they are certainly tryin' to get the visual experience of being with another woman.This is what many women can't understand(why their man needs to look at anyone naked other than them.) It has nothing to do with them.It has to do with the need a male has to see something different(not necessarily better,but different.)

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

PGRDN,porn is a substitute for being with other women.Some would say men that look at it aren't monogamous.Men are gunna want to look at more than one woman naked.Woman tolerate it better than actual sex,because it's doesn't have an emotional attachment to it.So,how many men just have sex with their wife?no porn,no strip clubs,no having intercourse with other women) I just ruled you out.You're (in this way) normal.If you're watching someone naked(other than your wife,)then you too enjoy pie(instead of cake)once in a while.That's what a male is wired to be like.Guys who watch porn aren't getting the emotional experience of being with another woman,but they are certainly tryin' to get the visual experience of being with another woman.This is what many women can't understand(why their man needs to look at anyone naked other than them.) It has nothing to do with them.It has to do with the need a male has to see something different(not necessarily better,but different.)

Sometimes men want to see other men naked too. And let me tell you... it's not just women who get upset because their partner is looking at another naked person. Men can get upset too.

[SCUDSBROTHER]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Sometimes men want to see other men naked too. And let me tell you... it's not just women who get upset because their partner is looking at another naked person. Men can get upset too.

It's normal for men to want to look at other people(whatever sex they choose ..o.k. Cajun) naked.Also,it's normal for them to want their regular partner to not do the same.That's the truth.That's the way men are wired.That's nature.Men try to overcome nature as best they can(porn or whatever.)

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

It's normal for men to want to look at other people(whatever sex they choose ..o.k. Cajun) naked.Also,it's normal for them to want their regular partner to not do the same.That's the truth.That's the way men are wired.That's nature.Men try to overcome nature as best they can(porn or whatever.)

Just saying that women have to overcome their nature too, Scuds.

It really comes down to the kind of person you are. (Not you in particular, but you get what I'm saying.)