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Originally Posted by Calzone Lord
I don't get 99% of women. A lot of times the attractive ones are especially messed up.
Going up and being nice, good-natured, and saying flattering things is absolute death with attractive women.
Drilling them with a snow-ball before you've ever met them -- or greeting them with a subtle put-down or two is the stuff that can work.
That gender makes absolutely no-sense to me. Maybe the PAP Sheets guy with the messed up hair, dark circles under his eye, 1980's tv, and punched in wall really does have them figured out and is a legit pick-up artist guru like he claims in his book.
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I hear you. It's difficult to explain but I'll give it a shot. Ladies, chime in if you have something to add here.
For some reason, the guy with the snow ball is believed to be a better catch than the good natured guy that pulls out a chair for you.
Here's my theory:
This dates back to the days when we lived in caves and grunted at each other. Women are somehow programed to think that the guy with the snow ball is going to be a better hunter and provider, (and more fun) than the guy who is good natured that pulls out a chair for you. It's as simple as that.
Regarding the case being discussed = Women with low self-esteem tend to 'settle'. Deep down they figure they are where they should be or belong. Females have to have
respect for themselves to envision themselves with the guy that throws the snowball, brings home the fresh kill, protects them, makes strong healthy babies, and makes them happy, and never abuses them.