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Originally Posted by Rupert Pupkin
You would be extremely surprised to know how many married couples have separate beds or even separate bedrooms. In a survey by the National Association of Home Builders, builders and architects predicted that more than 60% of custom houses would have dual master bedrooms by 2015. Here is an article about it in the New York Times:
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/11/us...=5070&emc=eta1 |
Yes, but read what Tiger is saying. That chick is wanting to fall asleep with him. That means she isn't gunna be checking email, watching T.V., reading with a lamp on etc. She's ready to fall asleep with him, and he doesn't want to. He doesn't say that he can't sleep with her touching him. He says she can't be in the bed with him, because he has a problem with that. I wouldn't be surprised if he snores(since he was said to be doing that in the middle of the street,) but he won't just say that. He either snores, or has some OCD thing going on. Either way, he keeps his own negative traits vague. Selfish type people have virtually no interest in talking about their flaws.
The reason I mention the separate bed thing is because sleeping in the same bed is a sign that you can tolerate some minor disruptions etc.(the needs of another) in order to be close to someone you love(or like.) It's a small sign that you are willing to tolerate someone else's habits. Narcissistic types can't do that. There are some reasons (in the article) for having two rooms (an option.) Unless there is a really good reason for sleeping in separate beds(snoring etc.,) I think it's a bad idea. 1) People are often so busy that those 8 hours are pretty much the only time they spend together that day. 2) If you have an argument, then the icy time will be shorter if you have the same bed. Not saying you'll talk, but it's still better than being in separate beds. If you argue, and have separate beds, then you can really have a long time before you'll talk again.