The word is just that, a word. Its all about how you react to it, which you have total control over. So, if someone wants to call me that, or anything else, so be it. I could care less.
I use to let little shiat like that get me all riled up, even past the point of anger. Here is the way I look at it now. If someone calls you this or that it is not necessarily a reflection of who you are but rather who they are.
I thought the avatar was funny

A sense of humor is a blessing, especially at ourself.