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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
When you're told over n' over again, then you'd think you would believe them, but you know better than them? They're bluffing huh? If their families know they're gay, then I doubt they've ever been asked by their family "when are you gunna settle down with someone?" I It isn't cherished by families. At most it's "accepted." So, why would they make a choice to do something that isn't cherished? Why would they do this?
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To put it another way, if the world were reversed and same-sex couples were the norm and opposite-sex coupling was taboo, could you suddenly adapt to that and find the same sex sexually attractive because society says you should?
One of my roommates in college had a father who was gay. But he tried to do "the right thing"- he got married, had a kid and tried until my roommate was ten, when he finally came out of the closet. There was a bad divorce, and her mom never dated afterwards that I know of- I think her ability to trust anyone was permanently shattered. Expecting a gay person to suck it up and marry a straight person does not make for healthy marriages for anyone involved.