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2Hot4TV 04-14-2010 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudeboyelvis (Post 635895)
Seriously - put all the bullshit behind you - find something you are passionate about and pursue it with vigor...Work is always going to suck - deal with it - that's why you get paid to show up. People that "love" what they do for a living are infinitely blessed, or full of it and have their own issues...

If you are unhappy in your relationship GTFO!!!! You can always make money, meet new friends, etc....but you will NEVER get your time back. There is nothing worse than wasting your life in a shitty relationship just because its "comfortable". It WILL eventually end, and you'll eventually find happiness then kick yourself in the ass for staying as long as you did.

If you've seriously got a gambling problem, you need help. Period. You're never going to win in the long run. Ever. No one does - if they say they do, they are full of SH!T...If it's more than a casual pastime that you can afford to lose what you put into it, you've got issues that you need to deal with.

Lose some weight, gain some self-confidence and chart a path.

Good luck Joseph

Good advice.

The reason you keep going back to the things that you dislike is because you know what to expect from them. Change is what you might have aproblem with. The unexpected.

2Hot4TV 04-14-2010 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Coach Pants (Post 635901)
Yeah he'll probably die two years too soon if he doesn't work out.

Karma, we can only hope.

Sightseek 04-14-2010 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rudeboyelvis (Post 635895)
Seriously - put all the bullshit behind you - find something you are passionate about and pursue it with vigor...Work is always going to suck - deal with it - that's why you get paid to show up. People that "love" what they do for a living are infinitely blessed, or full of it and have their own issues...

If you are unhappy in your relationship GTFO!!!! You can always make money, meet new friends, etc....but you will NEVER get your time back. There is nothing worse than wasting your life in a shitty relationship just because its "comfortable". It WILL eventually end, and you'll eventually find happiness then kick yourself in the ass for staying as long as you did.

If you've seriously got a gambling problem, you need help. Period. You're never going to win in the long run. Ever. No one does - if they say they do, they are full of SH!T...If it's more than a casual pastime that you can afford to lose what you put into it, you've got issues that you need to deal with.

Lose some weight, gain some self-confidence and chart a path.

Good luck Joseph

:tro:

MaTH716 04-14-2010 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rudeboyelvis (Post 635895)
Seriously - put all the bullshit behind you - find something you are passionate about and pursue it with vigor...Work is always going to suck - deal with it - that's why you get paid to show up. People that "love" what they do for a living are infinitely blessed, or full of it and have their own issues...

If you are unhappy in your relationship GTFO!!!! You can always make money, meet new friends, etc....but you will NEVER get your time back. There is nothing worse than wasting your life in a shitty relationship just because its "comfortable". It WILL eventually end, and you'll eventually find happiness then kick yourself in the ass for staying as long as you did.

If you've seriously got a gambling problem, you need help. Period. You're never going to win in the long run. Ever. No one does - if they say they do, they are full of SH!T...If it's more than a casual pastime that you can afford to lose what you put into it, you've got issues that you need to deal with.

Lose some weight, gain some self-confidence and chart a path.

Good luck Joseph

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sightseek (Post 635877)
Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.

You can't get any better advice than these. :tro:

hoovesupsideyourhead 04-14-2010 09:25 AM

'I call her and email her 50 times a day,' stop stalking..get a life..do something or someone new..:rolleyes:

clyde 04-14-2010 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by philcski (Post 635834)
got a suggested method for PG?

Yes.




Read these responses.

clyde 04-14-2010 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Gaining Ground (Post 635860)
best advice i have seen in a long time


Thank you sssssso much.




It's a gift.

clyde 04-14-2010 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sightseek (Post 635877)
Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.


Oh my God.





Now I'm going to kill myself!!

Coach Pants 04-14-2010 11:38 AM

Statistics show



Maybe you should go to the gym, brah.

Sightseek 04-14-2010 11:42 AM

If he turns gay from going to the gym, at least he'll stop calling and e-mailing the ex-girlfriend 50 times a day. :D

randallscott35 04-14-2010 11:50 AM

Lol Coach:d

richard burch 04-14-2010 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by RockHardTen1985 (Post 635812)
How do you move on? From anything, a certain girl? A certain friend, a job? Gambling even? How do you take a break and just stop? I have a hard time, me and my x are driving each other crazy and I know I need to be done, but I dont, I call her and email her 50 times a day, she does the same. I hate my job and I know I need a new one, but I stay. My best friend from highschool is selfish, I know I need to be done with him but I still chill with him. Gambling, Im at a point where I just got smashed in the NCAA tourny and I know I need a break, but I still bet. Any advice? Can we try to keep the bullshit to a minimum, I am a sensitive guy and this is a serious thread no joke intended.

one thing for sure... dont quit your job....if you do, use clyde's suggestion.

miraja2 04-14-2010 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RockHardTen1985 (Post 635812)
How do you move on? From anything, a certain girl? A certain friend, a job? Gambling even? How do you take a break and just stop? I have a hard time, me and my x are driving each other crazy and I know I need to be done, but I dont, I call her and email her 50 times a day, she does the same. I hate my job and I know I need a new one, but I stay. My best friend from highschool is selfish, I know I need to be done with him but I still chill with him. Gambling, Im at a point where I just got smashed in the NCAA tourny and I know I need a break, but I still bet. Any advice? Can we try to keep the bullshit to a minimum, I am a sensitive guy and this is a serious thread no joke intended.

She'll never get through vet school/med school in North Carolina if you keep that up.

Indian Charlie 04-15-2010 02:43 AM

Your life is empty and you have nothing of real meaning in your life, beyond your kid(s).

All this stuff that causes interference in your life, you have it there to keep you away from any serious introspection, so you don't have to deal with any ugly truths about yourself, or face the prospect of changing things that are hard to change.

Once you realize that things such as careers, useless material possessions and expectations are bullshit thrown at you to keep you in line with everyone else, things will change in your life.

Of course, one must work in this world, so my belief there is to find something that you enjoy doing (or that you are passionate about, as I think Elvis said) and figure out how to make a buck or two at it.

Don't sweat the stupid stuff.

Figure out what you want in a woman and put yourself in situations to meet her. And remember this when looking at a woman, what she looks like today will not be what she looks like in 30 years.

Indian Charlie 04-15-2010 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by richard burch (Post 636212)
one thing for sure... dont quit your job....if you do, use clyde's suggestion.

It's annoying that people put work as their top priority in life.

I really would get annoyed in high school when people who just met me, or worse, my relatives, asked me what I was studying and what I wanted to do.

Then in college, the question shifted to 'What's your major?".

After graduating, people I just met would ask me what I do, as if that was possibly the most interesting thing about me.

I'd often answer with "I answer stupid repetitive questions".

Danzig 04-15-2010 06:23 AM

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Originally Posted by miraja2 (Post 636216)
She'll never get through vet school/med school in North Carolina if you keep that up.


:tro:x100

clyde 04-15-2010 05:35 PM

^^^^ Her pu.ssy is sssssssssssso hot!!

Buffymommy 04-27-2010 08:32 PM

Now come on guys... At least he has a good board name! ;)

Seriously, man up and just quit.


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